A Loving Reality

righteouslover — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 06:09:02 +0000

We never see things as they really are. All we really see in life, until we question what we think about life, is our thoughts, not life, not reality. Here is life-overflowing ever present ever powerful, and then our thoughts come in and it makes life like getting a little pixel from the TV. Just imagine you’re watching TV and then you just look at one pixel, grab it. You examine it for a while, and it gets boring after a while.Then it wouldn’t make much sense after a while; the pixel is just one little color out of the millions that you see on the screen. This is how people see life, just little fragments like our status, beliefs, thoughts about others, labels about you. This doesn’t show much about the world just like a pixel. Wouldn’t it be insane to depend on your life for those things?“Dreams are great until they turn into nightmares” Byron Katie Yet we still go on chasing all these things believing that it will make us happy when all our happiness is here in our awareness. We might go chase a lover, or have a big happy family but you lose the awareness of that moment. What if we fail? We are left out on the streets with pain. No wonder there is so much disproportionate pain with failing when we believe that success will bring us happiness, and we fail. Life is a endless portal, with a million colors, but here we are always on the run. We never really stop and just really enjoy the moment. There is always something more to reach with our fingertips, as we are running from something, but running for something at the same time. Thoughts when they go against reality make us have hell on earth. We then try to push them down, and resist them. Thoughts, fears, and beliefs take control of us when we have so many of them in our heads. On top of that we believe that more thoughts will help us. Just when we don’t stop thinking like thoughts like ‘ People should respect me. I can control how others feel about me.  I feel your energy. I know what you need.  I am worthless.  It’s my job to make you happy Life is difficult.  People should be grateful.  My boss should appreciate me. we meditate our thoughts, we do things that we think we need, we push them down, eat them down with food, get depressed, take drugs but nothing works. We at first think that life is the one at fault…but it isn’t it’s the thoughts about life. The thing about these thoughts is that they go against what really is happening, and results in pain. Acceptance feels good, reality is always nicer than the stories we have about it. Thoughts, fears, and beliefs seem like a very real thing, when in fact they are the most, beautiful, and so fake things you would ever see. Beautiful because it’s what it is, no need to make it negative, and fake because that’s what thoughts are. Just as I have a nice car, I could believe that I need that car. And if I believe that while it gets kicked used up, and trashed the dependency toward that car, beliefs, and actions I would take to care for it would be enormous. It would Just utterly insane to live that way, I mean who would live that way especially in America? Cars are no big deal, except when you need them. Just a thought can be so powerful, and make someone so weak. “Thought has divided itself as the controller and the controlled. One fragment of thought trying to control another.”-J. Krishnamurti Balloons are so big and fluffy but just pop them they had nothing but air in them. Just the air it takes to fill it up, our choice to believe in a thought is what fills up the balloon. Without our consent then the balloon falls, and so does the nightmare. When someone calls you stupid you need to fill it up with your power to believe in it, and fly off the ground from your reality. Balloons are great until we fill up the wrongs beliefs, and it doesn’t work for everyone only for you. One time a guy told me that I was stupid. I went immediately to my mind, and yes that is when he was right, stupid because I went to my mind. I believed him then I believe a million and a half things about what he said. He wouldn’t have said that if it wasn’t true was a very painful thought but nothing more. So I put it up to inquiry. Inquiry was the most loving thing in the world because It let me realize that what I had imagined was stupid was an ugly face so I imagined other peoples faces, my past, and reality was that my face was fine. The thought he wouldn’t have said that if it wasn’t true was a total lie. Here was my real me, my face, and my thoughts contradicting awareness. The times when we were prejudice against someone and got to realize it just hurt us in the end because we realized “hey they weren’t that bad of a person”. The thoughts lied about the person. Who would you be without your thought is a way to realize my mind is trying to paint up the picture when the picture is already painted. This is how the mind works putting a label on everything. It’s up to you to decide what is real for you, and pain is a good indicator it isn’t real. How many times do we say here comes the revolutionary change for the world so we meditate our thoughts, and everything without knowing the thoughts required you to keep them alive? There is even a song I find ironic is John Mayer – Waiting on the World to Change. The world Is a already beautiful but we think it’s our problem, again its our story. Who would you be without the thoughts the world should change? Moving away from Reality You could be lying down serenely on your bed. You see the items around you, such as pictures of cars you might have like Ferraris without yearning for them of course. The awareness in the surroundings, and everything so wonderful it seems, and it is. You have so much stillness and joy just to be. Then you might decide to snatch a pillow. Although the loss of awareness might be subtle it’s lost. You might get the pillow, it might be the thing that you really thought you needed, and you get your peace back. You call up your partner to join you and they might arrive, but in the interim there goes your harmony. By seeking comfort there goes your comfort. Finding Reality that never hurts within Reality like a flowing stream of water is plentiful and lovely never hurts you. Maybe it’s not something beautiful like we might think like a nice car. It might be a gust of wind, or thinking that you’re too fat. You might be in pain, and it hurts it really does, I’m not going to lie. Being fat, and ugly sucks it really does, just so many things don’t work and stuff that shouldn’t be the way it is. Wait a minute! That doesn’t work I was lying! Being fat, and “ugly” isn’t your problem and wasn’t a problem to begin with. At first this seems your reality, a dreadful and ugly one. A simple thought like I shouldn’t be fat could make your day from a living heaven to living hell in a second. You go through your day at work and you just are there, but your mind says you have little more extra. This statement contradicts reality because there isn’t a little more extra, except that extra thought comparing the two states of body. Here was reality so beautiful, and the thought pushes away from the realism. When you believe the thoughts you hate reality, and you make into a problem. Then you might hate it go to the gym get lypo. None of these are an efficient solution because they will result in pain. In Reality, reality was not your problem. It’s the thoughts that your body shouldn’t be is like saying reality. Like an orgasm, everything is just in a symphony working together harmoniously. Reality never hurts. Reality is love, and the mind joins in with the love as things are. Misunderstandings Some people think if I don’t think I shouldn’t be fat, that I won’t go to the gym and work it off. Not true. Its just that now you go to the gym with love and care with your body without the ravaging hate. Heck if you believe that your body or anything is your problem and realize it was your thoughts you just might be tempted to quit the anti-reality membership you had started. There is nothing wrong with improving yourself with what you have NOW, and this is loving reality not fighting with it like wishing for it to be something else. Nothing gets accomplished like that except for pain. I’ll be doing an article specifically on how to do the work.

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righteouslover — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 05:32:21 +0000

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A Loving Reality

“Your smile is a curve that can get a lot of things straight”

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